Sex & Relationship Therapist, Trainer, and Researcher
Raised by posh hippies, as I child I was endlessly fascinated by almost everything, especially people and why they did the things they do. I was a cheerful, introspective oddball (not much has changed!).
Throughout my 20’s and 30’s, I slowly, and often painfully, learned to put words to my feelings and experiences. In my intimate relationships, I knew I wanted something different and unconventional, but I didn’t know what to call it or how to ask for it. I’ve come to appreciate my process as a million experiments in love and intimacy.
Now, I am proud to say I’m a mixed race, queer, kinky, non-monogamous, autistic person. These aspects of who I am form and inform me and my practice.
I’m British and live in France, with my earnest and adoring rescue dog, Laniakea.